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C.R.I.-E.V.H. - n°17 2015 part 1

 

CRI n°17  2015

 part 1  

 

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WEAKNESS OR STRENGTH ? 
 
A 10-year-old boy decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident. The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. 
 
The boy was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training the master had taught him only one move.
"Sensei," the boy finally said, "Shouldn't I be learning more moves?"
"This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you'll ever need to know," the Sensei replied.
 
Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training. 
Several months later, the Sensei took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match.
 
Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals. This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the Sensei intervened. "No," the Sensei insisted, "Let him continue."
 
Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion. On the way home, the boy and the Sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind.
 
"Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?" "You won for two reasons," the Sensei answered. "First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defence for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm."
 
The boy's biggest weakness had become his biggest strength! 
"Sometimes we feel that we have certain weaknesses and so we tend to blame God, the circumstances or our own selves for it but we never know that our weakness can become our strength one day. 
 
Always reminding us, each of us is special and important, so we should never dwell on any weakness’, pride or pain. We should learn to just accept what is and live our life to the fullest; and extract the best out of it!"
 
 
 
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 A WISE STORY
 
 
There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'  
 
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend. He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.  
 
Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.' 
 
This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations. 
 
 
 
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LIFE IS A GIFT
 
 
Today before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak. 
Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat. 
Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion. 
Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who died too early on this earth. 
Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they're barren. 
Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets. 
Before   whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet. 
And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.  
But   before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is without sin. 
 
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.
 
 
 
 
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DISTANCE BETWEEN HEARTS
 
 
A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'
 
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 
'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
 
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other.
The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
 
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why?
 
Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'
 
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? 
They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.
 
Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
 
MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words in anger that distance each other.
 
 
 
 
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A STORY WORTH-READIND
 
 
Once a King called upon all of his wise men and asked them, "Is there a mantra or suggestion which works in every situation, in every circumstance, in every place and in every time. Something which can help me when none of you is available to advise me. Tell me is there any mantra?" 
All wise men got puzzled by King"s question. One answer for all questions? 
Something that works everywhere, in every situation?
 
In every joy, every sorrow, every defeat and every victory? They thought and thought.
After a lengthy discussion, an old man suggested something which appealed to all of them. They went to the king and gave him something written on paper. But the condition was that king was not to see it out of curiosity. Only in extreme danger, when the King finds himself alone and there seems to be no way, only then he"ll have to see it. The King put the papers under his Diamond ring.
 
After a few days, the neighbours attacked the Kingdom. It was a surprise attack of the King"s enemies. King and his army fought bravely but lost the battle. King had to fled on his horse. The enemies were following him. 
His horse took him far away in the Jungle. He could hear many troops of horses following him and the noise was coming closer and closer. Suddenly the King found himself standing at the end of the road - that road was not going anywhere. Underneath there was a rocky valley thousand feet deep. If he jumped into it, he would be finished.and he could not return because it was a small road. The sound of enemy"s horses was approaching fast. King became restless. 
There seemed to be no way.
Then suddenly he saw the Diamond in his ring shining in the sun, and he remembered the message hidden in the ring. He opened the diamond and read the message. The message was very small but very great. The message was – " This too will pass."
 
The King read it. Again read it. Suddenly something struck him- Yes! It too will pass. Only a few days ago, I was enjoying my kingdom. I was the mightiest of all the Kings. Yet today, the Kingdom and all his pleasure have gone. I am here trying to escape from enemies. However when those days of luxuries have gone, this day of danger too will pass. Calm come on his face. He kept standing there. The place where he was standing was full of natural beauty. He had never known that such a beautiful place was also a part of his Kingdom. The revelation of the message had a great effect on him. He relaxed and forgot about those following him.
 
After a few minutes he realized that the noise of the horses and the enemy coming was receding. They moved into some other part of the mountains and were not on that path. The King was very brave. He reorganized his army and fought again. He defeated the enemy and regained his lost empire. When he returned to his empire after victory, he was received with much fanfare at the door. The whole capital was rejoicing in the victory. Everyone was in a festive mood. 
 
Flowers were being thrown on the King from every house, from every corner. 
People were dancing and singing. For a moment King said to himself," I am one of the bravest and greatest King. It is not easy to defeat me..: 
 
With all the reception and celebration he saw an ego emerging in him. Suddenly the Diamond of his ring flashed in the sunlight and reminded him of the message. He opened it and read it again: "This too will pass" He became silent. 
His face went through a total change -from the egoist he moved to a state of utter humbleness.
If this too is going to pass, it is not yours. The defeat was not yours, the victory is not yours. You are just a watcher. Everything passes by We are witness of all this. We are the perceiver. Life comes and goes. Happiness comes and goes. Sorrow comes and goes.
 
Now as you have read this story, just sit silently and evaluate your own life.. Think of the moments of joy and victory in your life. Think of the moment of Sorrow and defeat. Are they permanent? They all come and pass away. Life just passes away. There were friends in the past. They have gone. There are friends today. They too will go. There will be new friends tomorrow. They too will go. There were enemies in the past. They have gone. There may be enemies in the present. They too will go. There will be new enemies tomorrow and.. they too will go.
 
There is nothing permanent in this world. Everything changes except the law of change. Think over it from your own perspective. You have seen all the changes. You have survived all setbacks, all defeats and all sorrows. All have passed away. If there are problems in the present, they too will pass away. Because nothing remains forever. Joy and sorrow are the two faces of the same coin. 
They both will pass away.
 
Who are you in reality? Know your real face. Your face is not your true face. 
It will change with the time. However, there is something in you, which will not change. It will remain unchanged.. What is that unchangeable? It is nothing but your true self. You are just a witness of change.
 
 
 
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I BELIEVE ........      
 
 
A Birth Certificate shows that we were born.
A Death Certificate shows that we died.
Pictures show that we lived! 
Have a seat . . . Relax . . . And read this slowly. 
 
I Believe... 
That just because two people argue, doesn"t mean they don"t love each other. 
And just because they don"t argue, doesn"t mean they do love each other. 
 
I Believe...
That we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change. 
 
I Believe...
That no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. 
 
I Believe...
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.  Same goes for true love. 
 
I Believe... 
That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. 
 
I Believe...
That it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. 
 
I Believe...
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. 
 
I Believe... 
That you can keep going long after you think you can’t. 
 
I Believe...
That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. 
 
I Believe...
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
 
I Believe...
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. 
 
I Believe...
That money is a lousy way of keeping score. 
 
I Believe...
That my best friend and I can do anything, or nothing, and have the best time. 
 
I Believe...
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up. 
 
I Believe...
That sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel. 
 
I Believe....
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had, and what you’ve learned from them......and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated. 
 
I Believe...
That it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others.  Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.. 
 
I Believe...
That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief. 
 
I Believe...
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are’ but we are responsible for who we become. 
 
I Believe...
That you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. 
 
I Believe...
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. 
 
I Believe...
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you. 
 
I Believe...
That even when you think you have no more to give, if a friend cries out to you.........you will find the strength to help. 
 
I Believe...
That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. 
 
I Believe...
That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
 
I Believe...
That you should send this to all of the people that you believe in. I just did. 
 
The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the most of everything. 
 
Thanks to you, to all you wonderful people, who help me throughout this journey of life ... 
 
 
 
 
 
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DO WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS...
 
 
 
Horror gripped the heart of a World War-I soldier, as he saw his lifelong friend fall in battle. The soldier asked his Lieutenant if he could go out to bring his fallen comrade back. "You can go," said the Lieutenant, "but don't think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead and you may throw your 
life away."
 
The Lieutenant's words didn't matter, and the soldier went anyway. 
Miraculously, he managed to reach his friend, hoisted him onto his shoulder and brought him back to their company's trench. The officer checked the wounded soldier, then looked kindly at his friend…
 
" I told you it wouldn't be worth it," he said. "Your friend is dead and you are mortally wounded." " It was worth it, Sir," said the soldier. "What do you mean by worth it?" responded the Lieutenant." Your friend is dead." "Yes Sir," the soldier answered, " but it was worth it because when I got to him, he was 
still alive and I had the satisfaction of hearing him say...." Jim...I knew you'd come."
 
Many times in life, whether a thing is worth doing or not, really depends on how you look at it. Take up all your courage and do something your heart tells you to do so that you may not regret not doing it later in your life.    
 
 
 
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SUPER COMEDY
 
 
One fine day, a bus driver went to the bus garage, started his bus, and drove off along the route. 
No problems for the first few stops, a few people got on, a few got off, and things went generally well. 
At the next stop, however, a big hulk of a guy got on. Six feet eight, built like a wrestler, arms hanging down to the ground. 
 
He glared at the driver and said, "Big John doesn't pay!" and sat down at the back. 
The driver was five feet three, thin, and basically meek... 
Naturally, he didn't argue with Big John, but he wasn't happy about it. 
 
The next day the same thing happened -Big John got on again, said "Big John doesn't pay!" and sat down. 
 
And the next day, and the one after that, and so forth. 
 
This irritated the bus driver, who started losing sleep over the way Big John was taking advantage of his size. 
 
Finally he could stand it no longer. He signed up for body building program, karate, judo and all that good stuff. 
 
By the end of the summer, he had become quite strong; So on the next Monday, when Big John got on the bus and said, "Big John doesn't pay!" the driver stood up, glared back and screamed, "And why not?" 
 
With a surprised look on his face, Big John replied, "Big John has a Bus pass." 
 
Moral of the story: First be sure is there a problem before working hard to solve one.
 
 
 
 
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A STORY OF A MONKEY AND A CROCODILE
 
 
 
Once there was a crocodile who lived in a lake adjoining a blackberry tree. A monkey lived on that tree. It used to eat the fruits of that tree and drop some into the lake, which the crocodile used to partake of. The monkey and the crocodile became good friends, as days passed by.
 
One day, the crocodile invited the monkey to visit its place, saying, “My good friend! I am partaking of the fruits dropped by you daily into the lake and feel very happy. I wish to reciprocate the gesture by hosting a dinner for you at my place”. The monkey was surprised at the crocodile’s request. It wondered, “Where on earth does this crocodile have its house? Where does it live”? The monkey pondered over the matter for some time.
 
In fact, monkeys are very intelligent. Human race has its origin in the monkeys. Finally, the monkey agreed to participate in the dinner hosted by the crocodile. However, it asked the crocodile, “How can I come to your house? You live in water. Neither I can get into water nor you can come out of it. How then can I visit your place of living”?
 
The crocodile then suggested, “Oh friend! I have a large body. You sit on my back and I will carry you to my residence like a boat”. Just before they reached the other end of the lake, the crocodile revealed its real intention to the monkey, “My wife wishes to eat the heart of a monkey. I have to fulfi l her wish. That is the reason why I brought you to this place”. The monkey thought for a while and replied cleverly, “Oh madcap! Why did you not tell me this before I got down from the tree? I will also be happy if your wife is satisfied.
 
You know I always keep jumping from one branch to another on trees. Hence, it is my habit to keep my heart tagged on to a branch, lest it should fall down while jumping. Please take me back to the tree so that I can pick up my heart and come along with you”. The crocodile believed the words of the monkey.
 
The crocodile has a lot of physical strength, but it lacks brains like the so-called educated people of present times. It therefore brought back the monkey to its place of residence. On reaching the bank, the monkey immediately jumped from the back of the crocodile and climbed the tree. From that vantage point, it ridiculed the crocodile, “You foolish crocodile! Don’t you know that the heart cannot be separated from the body and kept at a particular place? You are an idiot. I don’t wish to continue my friendship with you anymore. You tried to kill me in return for the hand of friendship extended by me. Is this the gratitude you should show towards me”?
 
So saying, the monkey broke its friendship with the crocodile. A real friend is one who stands by us, both in happy times as well as in difficult times.
 
 
 
 
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GOOD TONGUE and BAD TONGUE
 
 
Once upon a time a king wanted to have an exhibition of articles that would make people happy. Lot of articles were brought like flowers, fruits, books, musical instruments, sweets, ornaments etc. 
King went through all of them but his attention was caught by a clay model of tongue called "GOOD TONGUE."  King sent for the sculptor to share the reason. 
Sculptor said, "Sir, all other things give momentary happiness. Good tongue through speech of soft spoken words of love and sympathy gives happiness forever. Gives hope and cheer to the suffering, strength and confidence to the weak and sympathy and love to the orphans." King gave him a bag full of gold coins with happiness. 
 
 Same king wanted to have an exhibition of the things that make people unhappy. The hall was filled with sticks, whips, knives, swords, thorny plants, bitter fruits, Poison, liquor, barking dogs, cawing crows and a clay model of big red eyes with a black tongue abusing a poor lean and a hungry man called "BAD TONGUE." 
Sculptor explains to the king, "My Lord, bad tongue can kill others happiness, joy, destroys their hope and courage and push them into pool of misery. It wounds the heart fors the worst enemy of man." 
 
When tongue remains behind the teeth, it helps enjoy the food, can talk effectively and becomes useful. Out of boundaries it cannot function. So are the human beings, when they cross their boundaries.
 
 
 
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 UNE BELLE HISTOIRE D'AMOUR
Edith Merckx
 
 
Quand je suis rentré ce soir-là, et que ma femme a servi le dîner, je lui tenais la main et déclarais: « J'ai quelque chose à te dire. » Elle s'assit et mangea tranquillement. J'ai observé la douleur dans ses yeux.
 
Tout à coup, je ne savais pas comment ouvrir ma bouche. Mais je devais lui dire ce que je pensais : « Je veux divorcer ». J'ai soulevé le sujet calmement. Elle ne semblait pas être ennuyé par mes paroles, bien au contraire elle me demanda doucement : pourquoi?
 
J'ai évité la question. Cela la mit en colère. Elle a jeté les couverts et me cria : tu n'es pas un homme! Cette nuit-là, on ne s’est pas parlé l’un l'autre. Elle pleurait. Je savais qu'elle voulait savoir ce qui était arrivé à notre mariage. Mais je ne pouvais lui donner une réponse satisfaisante, elle avait perdu mon cœur, car il s’était tourné vers Jane. Je ne l'aimais plus du tout, j’avais juste pitié d’elle.
 
Avec un profond sentiment de culpabilité, j'ai rédigé une lettre de divorce, qui stipulait qu'elle pouvait avoir notre maison, notre voiture, et 30% du capital de ma société. Elle la regarda, puis la déchira en mille morceaux. La femme qui avait passé dix ans de sa vie avec moi était devenue une étrangère. J’étais désolé pour elle et pour la perte de temps, de ressources et d'énergie, mais je ne pouvais pas reprendre ce que j'avais dit car j'aimais Jane sincèrement. Enfin, elle a crié haut et fort en face de moi, et c'est ce que je m'attendais à voir. Pour moi son cri était en fait une sorte de libération. L'idée d'un divorce qui m'avait obsédée pendant plusieurs semaines semblait être plus ferme et plus clair maintenant.
 
Le lendemain, je suis rentré très tard et l’ai trouvée en train d’écrire quelque chose à la table. Je n'ai pas pris le souper, mais je suis allé directement au lit et m'endormi très vite parce que j'étais fatigué après une journée bien remplie avec Jane. Lorsque je me suis réveillé, elle était toujours là au bureau. Je n'y ai pas prêté attention, je me suis retourné et ai encore dormi.
 
Dans la matinée, elle a présenté ses conditions de divorce: elle ne voulait rien de moi, mais elle avait besoin d'un mois de préavis avant le divorce. Elle a demandé que, dans cette période d'un mois nous aurons tous deux à lutter pour vivre une vie aussi normale que possible. Ses raisons sont simples: notre fils aura ses examens dans un mois, et elle ne voulait pas lui perturber le moral par notre mariage brisé.
 
Ce fut agréable pour moi. Mais elle avait quelque chose de plus, elle m'a demandé de me rappeler comment je l'avais transporté dans la chambre nuptiale le jour de notre mariage. Elle a demandé que tous les jours pendant la durée du mois, je l'emmène hors de notre chambre à la porte chaque matin. Je croyais qu'elle devenait folle. Afin de rendre nos derniers jours ensemble agréables, j'ai accepté sa demande bizarre.
 
J'ai parlé à Jane des conditions de divorce de ma femme.  Elle éclata de rire, et trouva cela absurde :        « Peu importe les méthodes qu’elle appliquera, elle doit faire face au divorce », dit-elle avec mépris.
 
Ma femme et moi n'avions pas eu de contact de corps depuis que mon intention de divorce avait été explicitement exprimée. Donc quand je l'ai portée le premier jour, nous avons tous deux paru maladroits. Notre fils applaudit derrière nous, disant : « papa tient maman dans ses bras. » Ses paroles m'ont apporté un sentiment de douleur. De la chambre au salon, puis à la porte, j'ai marché plus de dix mètres avec elle dans mes bras. Elle ferma les yeux et demanda doucement, ne dis rien à notre fils au sujet du divorce. J'ai hoché la tête, me sentant quelque peu bouleversé. Je l’ai posée devant la porte. Elle est partie attendre le bus pour aller au travail. J'ai conduit seul vers le bureau.
 
Le deuxième jour, nous l’avons fait beaucoup plus facilement. Elle se pencha sur ma poitrine. Je pouvais sentir le parfum de son chemisier. J'ai réalisé que je n'avais pas regardé cette femme attentivement  depuis une longue période. J'ai pris conscience qu'elle n'était pas jeune non plus. Il y avait des fines rides sur son visage, ses cheveux grisonnaient! Notre mariage avait fait des ravages sur elle. Pendant une minute, je me suis demandé ce que j'avais fait d’elle.
 
Le quatrième jour, quand je l'ai soulevée, j’ai senti en retour un sentiment d'intimité. Elle a été la femme qui avait donné dix ans de sa vie pour moi. Le cinquième jour, et le sixième, j'ai compris que notre sentiment d'intimité renoué était croissant. Je n'ai rien dit à Jane à ce sujet. Il devenait plus facile de la porter au fur et à mesure que le mois s'écoulait. Peut-être que la séance d'entraînement quotidienne me rendait  plus fort.
 
Et, un matin, elle se mit à chercher quoi porter. Elle a essayé quelques robes mais ne pouvait pas en trouver une qui lui convienne. Puis elle soupira : « toutes mes robes ont grandi ». J'ai soudain réalisé qu'elle avait tellement maigri, c'était la raison pour laquelle je pouvais la porter plus facilement.
 
Tout à coup, cela m'a frappé ... elle avait enduré tant de douleur et d'amertume dans son cœur. Inconsciemment, j'ai tendu la main et lui ai  touché la tête.
 
Notre fils est arrivé à ce moment-là et déclara: « Papa, il est temps de porter maman. » Pour lui, voir son père portant sa mère était devenue une partie essentielle de sa vie. Ma femme fit un geste à notre fils de venir plus près et le serra étroitement. Je tournais mon visage parce que j'avais peur, je pourrais changer d'avis à la dernière minute. Je l’ai alors prise dans mes bras, marchant de la chambre, à travers le salon, dans le couloir. Elle mit doucement et naturellement ses mains autour de mon cou. Je l'ai serrée contre moi. C’était comme le jour de notre mariage.
 
Mais son poids beaucoup plus léger m'a rendu triste. Le dernier jour, lorsque je l'ai tenue dans mes bras, je pouvais à peine bouger d'un pas. Notre fils était allé à l'école. Je l'ai tenue fermement et lui dit: « Je n'avais pas remarqué que notre vie manquait d'intimité. »
 J'ai conduit et suis allé au bureau .... J’ai sauté de la voiture rapidement sans verrouiller la porte. J'avais peur qu’il soit tard pour moi de changer d'avis ... Je pris les escaliers. Jane ouvrit la porte et je lui ai annoncé : « Désolé, Jane, je ne veux plus divorcer. »
 
Elle me regarda, étonnée, puis toucha mon front : « As-tu de la fièvre? » Demanda-t-elle. J’ai enlevé sa main de ma tête : « Désolé, Jane », je répétais : « je ne vais pas divorcer » !  Ma vie conjugale était ennuyeuse sans doute parce qu'elle et moi n'avions pas valorisé les détails de nos vies, et non parce que nous ne nous aimions plus. Maintenant je me rends compte que depuis que je l'ai amenée à mon domicile le jour de notre mariage, je suis censé la garder jusqu'à ce que la mort nous sépare ».
 
 Jane semblait soudainement se réveiller. Elle m'a donné une forte gifle puis claqua la porte et fondit en larmes. Je descendis et m'en allais. À la boutique de fleurs sur le chemin, j'ai commandé un bouquet de fleurs pour ma femme. La vendeuse m'a demandé ce qu’elle pouvait écrire sur la carte. J'ai souri et j’ai écrit : Je te porterai chaque matin jusqu'à ce que la mort nous sépare.
 
Le soir je suis arrivé à la maison, des fleurs dans les mains, un sourire sur mon visage. Je montais les escaliers, mais seulement, hélas, pour trouver ma femme dans le lit, morte. Ma femme avait lutté contre le cancer depuis des mois et j'ai été tellement occupé avec Jane, que je ne  l’avais même pas remarqué. Elle savait qu'elle allait mourir bientôt et elle a voulu me sauver de la réaction négative de notre fils, au cas où nous aurions divorcé. Du moins, aux yeux de notre fils - je suis un mari aimant ... .
 
Leçon : Les petits détails de votre vie de couple, sont ce qui importe vraiment dans une relation. Ce n'est ni la maison, la voiture, la propriété, l'argent à la banque. Ceux-ci créent un environnement propice pour le bonheur mais ne peuvent pas donner le bonheur en eux-mêmes.
 
Donc, trouver du temps pour être l'ami de votre conjoint(e) et de faire des petites choses l'un pour l'autre, qui construisent l'intimité dans la vie de couple.
Ainsi donc, vous aspirerez à une vie agréable.
 
-Si vous ne partagez pas ceci, rien ne vous arrivera.
 
-Si vous le faites, vous allez peut-être sauver un mariage.
 
Beaucoup d'échecs de la vie sont dus au fait que les gens ne se rendent pas compte à quel point ils étaient près du succès au moment où ils ont abandonné.
 
 
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Vive la vie ! 
 
Dites à votre conjoint,  vos enfants, vos parents, vos amis que vous les aimez !
Faîtes des choses ensemble !
Créez des souvenirs !
Tissez de l’amour !
Vivez !
 
 
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